©KayLaN.Allen
If you combine your passion, your appetite for success, spirit, and fire inside of you and that is your zest.
What puts that light in your eyes? What fuels your flame? What drives your energy? What makes your heart happy? What seemingly makes your forget/overcome your struggles in you life?
Be Zesty (“lively and pleasing”).
Let’s say that there are 1000 other people going for the same job that you are going for…would you walk into your interview knowing that you are just another applicant? No, don’t do that. Sparkle, glisten, and show your passion because that will make you stand out.
God gave you gifts and talents; He gave you something that no one else has. He gave you a zest for what you are passionate about. Dark days and those who are against you do not matter.
Be active and energetic every day, no matter what happens and you’ll realize that you have so much to be thankful for. For those who choose to sit in sorrow, they will feel that everything is going wrong and nothing will ever change. If you encounter that person, let them know that two things that are guaranteed are the passing of time and change.
As much as we would like to control every part of our days, it is not always that easy. We do have the option to be full of zest and we do have the option to change the outcome of our days.
If you are feeling sad or discouraged, know that your zest in life is still connected to your heart and mind. The universe is constantly at work for you; be happy in every moment, as best as you possibly can- it is worth it. God knows and sees your dreams and He is shaping your path, be full of zest and be prepared for all of the good that is coming your way.
You see, as we challenge what seems likely to break us down we reveal zest for whatever our heart desires. If you are feeling stuck in a box because of your finances and you want to make a change, but that change requires finances, you need to change your thinking and take every step with a breath of zest.
There is not always going to be a door open for you, sometimes you have to build your own door and push it open.
A painting of clouds could seem dreary and boring, but if you add flowers, sunshine, and children playing you reveal happiness and zest…the same can be applied to your life.
Be enthusiastic and full of zest in all that you do and dream of. Your drive, compassion, vigor, and light inside of you are all that you need to succeed.
Mark 9:50
“Salt is a good thing; but if it has lost its zest, how can it be seasoned again? You should have salt within yourselves and peace with one another.” Be fervent in your beliefs, never lose sight of your dreams, and be filled with a zest for life. Work diligently to find peace within yourself and gain a high-spirit in life. Seek peace with others, one moment in anger is a moment that could be spent in resolution, clarity, and happiness; fix it, for you and those you love.
Romans 5:5
“And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” You must allow yourself to be filled with hope and joy in order to ready to receive all that has been promised to you by God. The universe reacts to what you are putting out in feeling and thought, so you need to live as though you have already manifested what you want in your life.
Have a complete zest for life and you will change the way that the see the world, and the way that things turn out.
***Health Spotlight***
Zoonotic Diseases: These infections link humans and animals. Although people come in close contact with their pets on a regular basis, there are germs/bacteria that can be carried by animals. Approximately 6 out of 10 infectious diseases are spread via animals. Thousands of people, annually, will get sick because of germs spread between humans and animals (CDC). Germs can be spread from direct contact, indirect contact, via an insect, or from contaminated food. Children under 5, the elderly, and those with weakened immune systems are at higher risk of a zoonotic disease. Prevention tips include: proper hand washing, staying safe around pets, prevent mosquito, tick and flea bites, safe food handling, and avoiding scratches or bites from animals. Depending on the type of disease, the incubation period can vary from hours to weeks and the symptoms vary, as well. Use your medical support system, they care and so do I.
Be blessed and be at peace.
#KayLasPositivityCorner
Tag: Evolving
W-Worthy
No matter what obstacles you face in your life, you are worthy of the great things that you want for yourself.
What does it mean to be worthy? How do you know if you are worthy?
Worthiness inside of you means that you are deserving, it is as simple as that. You know that you are worthy of all that life, God, and the Universe have to offer you if you are leading a kind, compassionate, thriving, humble, determined, prosperous, and goal-driven life.
Every one of us has a story to tell, a testimony to share and spread, and some element of pain attached to a part of us; it is all about what we do with those lessons and moments that will show us that we are living in our purpose and we are worthy to be great.
I always mention living in your purpose, and it is important to do so no matter what is happening in your life.
If you are sad in a moment or angry at someone, guess what? You need to think about it in the moment and then let it go. Remember that you are worthy of happiness and pure joy. You are not perfect and you may have some growing to do, but you are still worthy.
Worthiness is not something that can be shoved into your mind, though. You must be in tune with yourself and be able to look in the mirror at more than the image being reflected back to you.
Show and remind yourself that you are worthy by taking care of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
Even if you aren’t going anywhere for the day, even if your kids are driving you crazy, even if your job is draining you…get yourself together physically; get healthy, cut out your bad habits that are damaging your body and your life. You deserve to look well-groomed, polished and like the worthy being that you are.
Even if the storms in your life are turning into what seem to be disasters, be prayerful and meditate. If you are not taking care of your thoughts and what you put out into the Universe, how can you expect to live out your biggest dreams or achieve your highest goals. You deserve and are worthy of a healthy mental state. Do what is best for you.
Even if you are feeling depressed, anxious, broken, or lost remember that worthiness and happiness are embedded inside of you. You are an amazing and blessed being that is unlike any other and you have so much to offer the world. You are worthy of love, kindness, compassion, and so much more.
Even if you don’t go to church, if your faith is shaken, or if you have lost hope in the Universe know that your spirit is still intact and you are worthy of strength in your faith. You have everything that you need to be spiritually strong within you, but you must tap into it and be consistent.
Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” God knew that you were worthy before you were even created, don’t block yourself from all that He has promised.
The Universe is aware of your needs and wishes, don’t be blind to all that it is working out for you and all that it has to offer you.
Ephesians 2:10
“For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” Greatness is what you are made of and from, so doesn’t that mean that you are directly destined for and worthy of greatness? You were made of all that is love from He and what is love, therefore you are worthy of love and all that is made for you.
Blessings are flowing all around you and you are worthy of each one. Stop letting things (or people) block you from receiving what you are worthy of. Make the changes that are necessary for you to grow and become all that you are worthy of.
Do you think are worthy now? The answer should be and needs to be YES!!!
***Health Spotlight***
West Nile Virus- A common virus caused by mosquitoes; approximately 1 in every 150 people with the infection develop a serious illness and 1 in 5 develop symptoms, according to the CDC. The virus has a regular transmission cycle and can affect humans and other mammals. It is found in North America, Africa, the Middle East, Europe and West Asia, according to the WHO. Use EPA registered insect repellent and follow the application directions. Further protect yourself by wearing appropriate clothing. There are small things that you can do to protect yourself and your little ones. Failing to prepare could be detrimental, so do what is necessary to take care of your family.
Be blessed and be at peace.
#KayLasPositivityCorner
T-Trust
Many of us have experienced something that has “made/forced” us to re-evaluate who we are, who we’ve allowed to stay in our circle, and how we could ever trust again.
Trusting yourself can be one of the hardest things to do. We often compare ourselves to others in various capacities and we occasionally doubt ourselves.
The important thing that we must always remember is that we must make trusting ourselves a priority…so let’s address that first.
No matter what has come your way, you must be able to look inside of yourself and see the real you. It is a challenge, just as it is to have a smile on your face and truly be happy inside.
The doubt or trust that you have on your face can make or break your life and/or opportunities that came your way. This can easily happen because we tend to wear this mistrust/doubt on our sleeve.
To believe in yourself and trust yourself will not be an easy journey if you have ever been hurt, abused, cheated on or disappointed in any way…but you must learn.
If you allow the occurrences of your past take over, you will hurt yourself and everyone around you.
I want you to free yourself of the doubt inside yourself. Make logical decisions and trust will come along.
If you are trying your hardest in whatever you are doing – trust yourself & the process.
If you are working toward reaching your goals, trust yourself – you’re doing great.
If you have a vision for your life and your family – trust yourself.
Without trust, there are missed opportunities…who want to close a door in their own face?
If you have made a mistake forgive yourself and grow from your mistakes.
Mean what you say.
Act in your greatness and your purpose.
If you know your worth and you trust yourself, others will see it in you. If you are not living your best life, respecting yourself and trusting yourself, no one else will trust you or take you seriously. Stand up for who you are and who you are called to be.
God and the universe are on your side, so do your best. Trust in yourself.
Trusting others:
Psalms 37: 1-5
“Do not fret because of those who are evil or be envious of those who do wrong; for like the grass they will soon wither, like green plants they will soon die away. Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him and he will do this-He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn, your vindication like the noonday sun. Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.”
If someone has hurt you in the past, forgive them and learn to trust. This does not mean forgive the same person over and over again acknowledging their insanity while making excuses for them. I did not say live in stupidity. I’ve already done it for you (in the past) so no need to repeat my mistakes. Do better-you deserve better.
On the same token, if someone has hurt you that does not mean you have the right to take it out on the next person you encounter.
Give someone a fighting chance to be with you, work with you, love you, grow with you. You deserve that love and trust…don’t they as well? If you think someone is “unworthy” of that trust, do yourself and them a favor and let them go!!!
You must take time to heal and re-learn who you are and truly understand what trust means.
So whether we are talking about trusting ourselves or trusting others, you must remember that trust will not happen over night…nor will the pain from losing trust.
You will not always be right, so don’t think that just because you are thinking something or feeling something that you must be right. Do not be foolish.
Proverbs 19:20
“Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.” There is always room for growth and always something that can be learned from someone else. Don’t be stubborn and stuck in your ways; you’ll only hurt yourself.
Use what life, God, or the universe teaches/reveals to you and become a wiser person.
Trust, the heart, and mind go hand-in-hand…allow them to work together in your life.
Be blessed and be at peace.
#KayLasPositivityCorner
***Health Spotlight***
Tobacco Usage & Cessation- It is 100% your choice if you want to live as a smoker. Be mindful of the damage that you are doing to your body, though. Your family and those who love/care about you need you to live a healthy life. If you smoke you are likely shortening your life. An escape may be what you are looking for, but an escape will not heal what is really hurting you internally. You can stop smoking. You will save money, have a healthier body, and you will be giving the world your best self. If you think no one cares about your life, you are wrong…I do. Please do what you can to stop smoking (including vapes, hookahs, and everything in between); intentionally putting chemicals in your body is not the key to leading a happier and healthier life. Start paying attention and make the necessary change.
O-Overcoming
©KayLaN.Allen
Let me guess your situation…
assaulted OR
you thought you had in the bag OR
that school OR
OR
brick walls and closed doors OR
plagues your body and/or your mind OR
good enough…
Did I guess right? If not, insert here “I________”.
Now what I need you to do is face yourself and stop beating yourself up. I’m not making light of your situation, in fact I am saying that I have very likely been there too. You know what thought, it’s time for a new blessing and a new opportunity. Guess what, you already have it! You woke up today, did you not? You have all of your faculties, do you not? You have love around you (even if you feel that you don’t, you have me and I LOVE YOU!).
No more “Negative Nancy”, you can overcome anything because of the strength within yourself.
Philippians 4:13
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Whether you say that your source is God or the universe, the result is still the same: You can do ALL things! Dust yourself off, clear your mind, pray, meditate, heal yourself internally and you will overcome your troubles. There is no other option.
Someone will not come and save you, complete you, come and make you happy…you have to do that for yourself…don’t be so blind as to think otherwise. You are much more intelligent than that.
Each time that you allow your circumstances, disappointments, low-times, etc. plague your body, you plague your mind and your life (present and future).
Forgive that person that hurt you or shut the door in your face, you are stronger than those times; forgive for yourself and no one else.
A better opportunity will arise and be fitting.
Doors open and close, that is what they are supposed to do.
There is a miracle working for you and it was made especially for you.
You are good enough, you are not perfect and you may need some evolution but you have light inside of you…let it shine.
You must make the choice to overcome. Dress to the best of your ability and top it off with a big smile! Go on that vacation or retreat BY YOURSELF. Take yourself on a date. Get a hobby. Enjoy a life with purpose.
Delve into yourself. You are beauty, love, strength, determination, courage, and growth; take off your blinders of love or whatever else and just think about it. Shut off all of the noise in your head and realize this:
As long as there is breath in your body there is a chance to overcome everything that you think is weighing you down.
Please remember, that there is always someone who has it worse than you. Stand strong and hold onto your faith; it is so much bigger than your problems.
You know that there will be many more struggles in life, but it is up to you to overcome it all. You can do it. No problem is too big. When you overcome, you rise above, you improve your health and you are prepared to bless someone else who may be dealing with something similar.
James 1:12
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him.”
Don’t you see…you must go through that time of difficulty. No it is not pretty or easy, nothing was ever promised to be easy in this life. However, if you do not overcome this time what will happen? You will literally tear apart everything and everyone around you or block blessings.
You are a warrior in this life. Are you using all of your strength to win your battle or are you allowing those difficulties to make decisions for you?
Get up and show the world what you are made of…someone is watching and someone needs you. Choose joy and choose to live the best life possible, after all the choice is yours.
If you need help in your overcoming journey, I am here for you and there are many other positive options available if only you seek resolution.
Be blessed and be at peace.
#KayLasPositivityCorner
The Sun Strength and Beauty in You
E-Evolution (Of Yourself & Your Life)
Self-evolution starts with self- reflection.
Often, it is only right that you think about a
new and better you.
Close your eyes and no don’t make a wish…
I’m going to take you on a journey through your own mind.
It is time to completely let go of your painful/difficult past and visualize and manifest your destiny.
Now visualize in depth, in color, inside your mind your accomplishments,
greatest “failures”, and hopes left unattended.
What do you see? Smiles, tears, bruises? The common factor is you.
The next thing to do is allow yourself to rejoice in your accomplishments and
achievements and forgive yourself for your perceived failures or pain that lies in your
past.
If you don’t face yourself and face your crap/personal issues you cannot evolve. No exceptions.
Pray about what you want and be thankful for what God has given you.
The next step
in this visualization is to bring to life all that you want in your life. You
need to see yourself accomplishing that next goal. You need to see yourself
graduating and getting that degree. You need to see yourself opening up your
checking account or your savings account and seeing those millions of dollars
sitting there.
You need to not only envision your life and everything that you
want in it but you need to feel how you would feel in those moments.
So let’s
say that you are opening up that account and you see those millions of dollars, you need to feel it right now -You open the account and you’re happy, you’re
excited, you’re proud of yourself.
If you live in your purpose and allow
yourself to evolve, empowering yourself along the way, nothing can stop you.
Have you spoken negatively about someone’s dream? Remember when you maybe said something to someone that may not have been kind? In those moments, all you did was push your blessing
further away.
Bless everyone around you. If you’re the smartest and most successful in your
group, you need a new group.
God is not going to bless your ugliness, laziness,
or character flaws that you are unwilling to change.
You have every tool possible to change your life, your
integrity, your knowledge, your approaches to communication, your diligence and
everything in between.
It’s time to change your entire life.
Lose that weight, get that degree, EVOLVE!!! Faith without works is dead,
people.
Challenge yourself, push through, get certifications, do whatever it takes to
up your game!
Everything that you are/are not doing is affecting your present and the next decade.
What are you waiting for?
Need a push? Go to the Bible! Refer to that which you know about the universe, growth, cosmic awareness and personal development.
1 Corinthians 13:11
“When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason
like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things.” It is the time grow and do away with things of your past being. You can’t move forward if you are constantly looking back.
Don’t you know better than to settle for mediocre?
Don’t you know better than to just sit on your butt waiting for something to
happen?
Don’t you know better than to speak ugly or negatively to or about people?
Do you deserve more than what you’ve received?
Do you believe that the universe or God’s love is never-ceasing and that you
can do ALL things through Jesus Christ?
If you do… what’s stopping you besides you? Nothing.
properly and cut out baggage, eliminate all negativity, love yourself better.
have the tools… NOW OPEN YOUR EYES!!!!
I
pray that your life is full of love, happiness, success, and perfect health.
Pray for me, as I always pray for you.
Be blessed and be at peace.
#KayLasPositivityCorner
***Health Spotlight*** Ehrlichiosis
Transmission- It is a tick-borne disease caused by bacteria Ehrlichia chaffeensis, E. ewingii, or E. muris eauclairensis in the U.S.
Symptoms may include: chills, headaches, fever, muscle aches and/or upset stomach
Treatment: Doxycycline for children and adults
Statistics: Over 1000 annually over the past 6 years
Reference: CDC