Dear Mixed Girl,
How do you focus on your goals and keep going forward when you think the odds are stacked against you?
We, as mixed girls, can sometimes go through life being told that because we are different, there will be nothing that we can do that will be easy.
We can also be told that everything will come to us without problems.
Both of those statements have no actual validity, and it is up to you to know that if you want to reach your goals, you must stay focused and check off your list as you move forward.
No one can tell your story or dictate your life and what it is made of except you.
The challenges that you overcome, the methods in which you strive for greatness, the courage that you house inside your DNA are to be understood by you and only you.
In life, one of your greatest missions is to recall who you are at your core, no matter what you face or what goals you aim to achieve.
Bind your passion to your goals and let nothing that holds no real value break your focus because you are worth far more than that.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
Letter Entitled: “Goal List – Check Off and Keep Going”
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.