Life is designed in a way that is not always easy, direct, or consistent.
In fact, it can surely be difficult to maintain a sense of stability when the road is rocky. However, what would happen if you put yourself to a stability test to determine if you were stable over time regardless of what you were facing?
When faced with a challenge we often have to change how we react, process information, and sometimes how we approach conversation.
Even though we have to change some things when challenges (for better or for “worse”), one thing that must stay the same is who we are.
Passing the stability test means that you are able to look at yourself and understand that you are still maintaining your identity, your truth, your morals, and your worth even when things are not in the typical/wanted flow of daily life.
How easy it would be if we if we could simply change who we are over and over again, but how difficult it would be to love and be loved, because we would never able to be understood.
Wanting to analyze your stability over time is to know that you deserve to be powerfully you in and out of seasons.
The place where we could easily lose sight is in the situations and spaces in which we are trying to be that which we are not for purposes beyond ourselves.
Taking on a false identity to fit a mold will never give you what you want in life.
Although we are to evolve over time, we in many ways maintain the integrity and depth of ourselves if we choose to do so.
While I watch myself evolve over the years and become who God calls me to be, I still can see that which makes me who I am living and breathing inside of me. I will never “shapeshift” for some purpose, besides it would not give me joy or help me to fulfill MY destiny.
We have to be able to strongly walk in our shoes know that even if we must change shoes, our feet will still be firmly planted on the ground.
Stay focused on what you want for your life and know that life will become what you want it to be if you are willing to put in the work and remain true to yourself.
Be blessed at be at peace.
-KayLa’s Positivity Corner
Dr. KayLa N. Allen is a Doctoral (DHA) Candidate, National Motivational Speaker, Thought Leader, Transformational Coach, and Expert on Shaping Thriving Futures. Learn more about her services and how you can begin your journey through business and personal evolution by clicking the button below.