Do you know that it is okay to embrace what is extremely different in your life or that of your family?
When something about you is different, it may feel like it would be easier to hide it or shelter yourself to protect what is meaningful to you.
Understanding the truth of who you are, even if it did not exist in your family before you, is so important.
If you hide something from others, you may be hiding your light, joy, and potential to be something amazing in the world.
Embracing what may seem like a “stain” in your life or identity is when you know that you can feel free to fly and be all that you are.
Only others can taint and call something about you a stain because they do not know the powerful things that come together to make you who you are.
Own the beauty of your differences, dear mixed girl, because you are so special in every way.
Love yourself for who you are and what makes you different because that is what will fill your life with unmistakable joy and lead you to much prosperity.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
Letter Entitled “Hide Or Embrace A Stain On Your Life”
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.