Dear Mixed Girl,
Do you understand that you were molded in a unique way and you define the future of all you are?
You are always growing and learning in all things that you do.
When you think of how you are changing, you can choose to be clay and mold yourself along the way.
If you approach your growth already formed as if you lack nothing, you will appear as though you’re a brick.
You’re worth and value are far deeper than you may know, but how you approach life and learning is important.
How you learn in your growth and journey will shape your future in every way.
As you should be, clay that can be molded can be beautiful, strong, valuable, and cherished.
Never stop challenging yourself and recall how you show up in life, as you always have a choice between being the “as-is” brick or being the valuable clay.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
Letter Entitled “Be Brick or Clay”
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.