How is your life’s destination different from where you began?
Your origins or a set pathway do not entirely determine your destination in life.
Creation is only a part of who you are.
You have the power to accept that your destination is crafted and, in some ways, altered before your eyes.
As you learn about your life, embrace who you are, and experience bumps in the road, you can take hold of the steering wheel of your life.
No one can force you to become something you are not, nor can they decide where you will go.
Your destination is a journey to be appreciated and valued with you at the center of that perspective.
When you are in the driver’s seat along your diverse and unique journey, you have the chance to appreciate the view, pierce the veil of the world around you, and cruise toward your destination because your heart and soul have power over that which is in your rearview mirror.
– Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
“My Destination Is Mine”
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.