Finding your way through difficult situations and maintaining a sense of strength within yourself takes strength, but it is tough in more than one way.
Completing a task or making something happen is only one part, the external part, of creating a reality.
Some of the most difficult work to be done happens within yourself when strength may not be enough to get something done.
Things that are worth having and things that you really want in life will not fall into your lap with ease.
You will be met with tears, trips and falls, lies and false judgment, naysayers, bias, and everything in between when you are trying to do great things and be a good person.
Strength is not something that is only important from a physical standpoint; it must be developed from the inside out if you aim for it to hold a lasting and meaningful value.
You are a multifaceted person that has been met with many sets of circumstances, obstacles, and missions throughout your life, so how could your element of strength be one dimensional? It isn’t. There are many parts to it.
Your strength requires you to be a whole person. You must be working on your health from the inside out. You must understand that you will not always be working from a place of 100% and that is okay just as well.
Being strong is a part of who you are, it is not an identity, so keep that in mind.
No matter what you may face in life, your strength may need to be present so that you can accomplish your goals but that does not mean that you cannot be gentle, human, or “soft” at times.
Be yourself. Be patient. Practice self-empathy. Work hard to find the balance that you need in your life, and you will walk into the life that you deserve.
Life will be met with trials and storms, but you will be the determining factor in how your strength will show up.
Even if the odds seem like they are stacked against you or if many things seem to be going terribly wrong, one thing is for sure, you are so much stronger than you think.
Be blessed and be at peace.
-KayLa’s Positivity Corner
Dr. KayLa N. Allen is a Doctoral (DHA) Candidate, National Motivational Speaker, Thought Leader, Transformational Coach, and Expert on Shaping Thriving Futures. Learn more about her services and how you can begin your journey through business and personal evolution by clicking the button below.