Dear Mixed Girl,
Do you know that what you face is not always something you asked for or something you have to welcome?
Seeing the world around you for what it is can be a challenge as a person from a mixed-race/multicultural background.
Knowing that what you may see does not have to be a part of your world or your future is a challenge that you can tackle.
War may arise around you, but you are armed with courage, greatness, and unique power unlike any other.
Your identity may trigger feelings, conversations, or behaviors in others that are negative, but you do not have to accept them.
The choices that you make will shape who you are and what your future will be.
You are wonderful, kind, beautiful, and a force to be reckoned with, so you do not have to accept any negativity that may arise around you.
No war that grows like weeds along your path and attacks your perception of your identity or sits amid your truth is incapable of being cut back or eliminated with the power of your mind, joy in your spirit, and love within your heart.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
Letter Entitled “The War You Didn’t Welcome or Ask For”
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.