Have you ever been told that your life is easier because of your mixed identity?
Countless people may believe that you do not face countless challenges because of who you are or what you look like, but that is not true.
Life is full of twists and turns for mixed girls, and that can be hard to understand from the outside looking in.
Even though no one can quite understand that your life is not easy, you must not make a big deal out of the flow of your life.
Remain true to your path and your life.
Know that you do not need to prove your challenges nor the depth of your journey to anyone.
Become the next version of yourself with great consistency and you can create the life that you want without fear or doubts that it can be taken away from you in any way.
You are stronger and more powerful than you know. Keep your eyes facing forward and your heart centered on the greatness that lives inside of you.
–Dr. KayLa N. Allen‘s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.
Find out more about Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” coaching program.