When did it become a challenge for so many of us to pause and remember to celebrate life in the ways that makes us happy?
This year as I celebrated another year of life, I made it a point to do a few things that I like to do and I took some time to think about why it was such a big deal to do so.
Are you the kind of person that loves to celebrate other people, plan birthday celebrations, find special birthday cards and do all sorts of kind things when a time for celebration arises? Lots of us are.
There are countless events that happen in our lives, but how often do we take the time to do the things that we would like to do to celebrate them?
When you celebrate yourself, put yourself at the center of the celebration and do not worry about who will be there or who will like what they see. No celebration of your life or event within it is for the show of others, it has to be about what will make you happy.
Only when you can say that you were happy about the life celebrations that you carry out, will you know that you are doing the right thing for you.
For my birthday I did so many things from artsy things to yummy food things and all of it made me happy first and foremost. After going through so many things in life, from overcoming domestic violence to the challenges of finding my voice, I had to figure out what it meant to celebrate myself and be okay with it. I’m honored to know what that means and love it 100%!
When you know what it means to celebrate special moments your way, you cannot let it go because the joy and feelings that it brings will change everything forever.
There is nothing like celebrating your life authentically and not worrying about judgment. There is no time like the present to start being phenomenally you every day!
Dr. KayLa N. Allen is a Doctoral (DHA) Candidate, National Motivational Speaker, Thought Leader, Transformational Coach, and Expert on Shaping Thriving Futures. Learn more about her services and how you can begin your journey through business and personal evolution by clicking the button below.