Dear Mixed Girl,
Has there ever been a time when you were attracted to something you wanted out of life then you faced immediate rejection?
We are often walking through life in a way that is filled with fear, however, we cannot let that break down the very figments of our dreams.
People will reject you and try to break your hope, but you cannot allow that to happen.
Your attraction to a passion, dream, art, or space of creativity is for your exploration, presentation, and love.
You may look different than others but you are still allowed to dream.
There are not enough rejections in the world to break that which you are naturally attracted to.
Your heart, soul, culture, and blood fill you with something so special that only you can do – never forget that.
When you believe in yourself, use the rejections and dismissals to make a world that allows you to be expressive and be free.
There will never be a time that you have to become less than what you beautifully are.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” letters
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.
Find out more about Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” coaching program!