Dear Mixed Girl,
Matching who is in the mirror with whom you are designed to be can be quite confusing, especially from the outside looking in.
As you grow up and become uniquely you, you may get to a place in time where you see yourself on a seesaw, wondering which direction to go.
Remain who you are, be patient with whom you are becoming, and appreciate when every moment is difficult.
Only when we can place a value on what makes our hearts sing can we truly and freely take a beautiful journey through all that we are.
Some people may tell you that you cannot do something because of your cultural background, but it is not valid.
The world is constantly changing, and the only way you can find that special place where you desire to reside is by being uniquely you.
Challenge yourself to be curious beyond what you may already know.
Evolving your thoughts and being exactly [who] you are called to be will drown the sounds of doubts from others as you gift the world with your greatness.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” letters
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.
Find out more about Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” coaching program!