Dear Mixed Girl,
Your uniqueness and all that makes you wonderful will always bring out negativity, bullying, and belittling from others.
Still, you must be bold in the skin that you are in.
You can become all that you dream of by remaining who you are.
Don’t ever bend over backwards to try to make others like your or believe in you.
There is nothing that you can do to make the negative words from others change, unless they want to change.
Challenge yourself to accept your differences and learn to understand that being different is a gift and a blessing unlike any other.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen, “Dear Mixed Girl” letters
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.
Find out more about Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” coaching program!