Is it easy to acknowledge that life can be a race to be won if you work together and someone is there to help you when you fall?
When you are learning to understand who you are or gathering strength within yourself, it may be challenging to do this yourself.
If you have someone by your side who understands the depth of who you are, you can embrace a new you with your truth intact.
There is no need to go through life alongside those who will not be in your corner and there to support you in your uniqueness.
Seek to share your journey and heart in vulnerable spaces with those who really care about you.
If you cannot stand with someone, friends or loved ones, who care about you, stand firm in your truth and grow in spaces where you flourish.
You have power and greatness within yourself and who you are.
How you run your race of life in all that you are while deciding who will be by your side and who will lift you up when you stumble or fall is your choice.
-Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s “Dear Mixed Girl” Letters
Letter Entitled “Your Two-Legged Race”
The “Dear Mixed Girl” letters are a series from Dr. KayLa N. Allen that share experiences, motivation, and compassion. These letters are linked to the “Dear Mixed Girl, What is Your Identity?” coaching program. Other related messaging that Dr. KayLa creates is to re-shape the way that mixed girls and women think about themselves and how they contribute to the world by being themselves.
No “mixed” experience is the same, but many parts of the biracial/multi-ethnic experience are similar. It is in these similarities that we can find individuals truths and ways in which we can become the best version of ourselves regardless of what the world may show us.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s greatest hope is to share with others her truth and what lives inside of her so that there can be sustainable changes and powerful impact in those living the life of a “mixed” girl.
If you or the mixed girl in your life felt the impact of this letter, read more empowering messages and find out how you can transform yourself, be proud of who you are, and lead a unique and joyful life via Dr. KayLa N. Allen’s coaching programs.